If you saw our post about The Why Behind our Business, you know that we strive for our business to be about much more than pretty pictures. We want to impact marriages and make a difference in our couples’ lives. We want to be more than just wedding photographers, but an example of a successful marriage. We are nowhere near the “perfect marriage” (which by the way, there is no such thing), but we do know what has worked for us and may work for others! So this friends is where this series comes in: The Marriage Files. In this series, we share marriage advice and tips that have helped us throughout our marriage and strengthened the bond that we have. Whether it is advice that’s been given to us, or things that we found worked due to trial and error, we’re sharing all the things that edified our lives together and will hopefully help other couples strengthen their marriages as well! If you’re new to The Marriage Files, catch up with the first one here before you get started. If not, welcome back and here’s Part 7 in our series for couples and marriages! :)
Marriage Files: Part 7
In every marriage there are two side and two completely different people coming together as one for… well, forever! And in each marriage it is so important that the husband and wife stay within their roles and don’t cross that line where respect and love is lost. You may or may not agree, but Vic and I base our marriage on Biblical guidelines and try our very best every single day to adhere to God’s will and plan for our marriage. There are sometimes days where we don’t do such a great job, and that’s ok, because we always work on practicing forgiveness. Today, we are diving into the one main thing a man and woman needs in a marriage!
- A man needs to be respected
The one and only thing a man really needs from his wife is her respect. He needs to feel that his wife truly respects him and trusts him to lead their marriage and family. Respecting your husband will get you much farther in your marriage than trying to trample over him or manipulate him into getting your way! Now, this is not to say that a man should disrespect his wife and demand that his word be final. But he does need to feel like the head of the home and by showing him that you respect him, you are showing that you love him!
2. A woman needs to be loved
Now on the flip side of that coin, a woman only needs to feel that she is loved. She needs to feel cared for and that no matter what she will always be loved. And it’s so funny how the needs of a man and a woman go hand in hand and intertwine to create a harmonious marriage. If a woman feels loved she will respect her husband and if a husband feels respected, he will then love his wife. Giving your wife the love she deserves will keep her close and it will be easy for her to respect you. It’s a win-win for everyone!
Staying within your roles as a husband and a wife, will keep your marriage in the best place it can be, and isn’t that exactly where you want it to be?
